I've been in a relationship for 5 years. I'm not sure I'm (we're) happy, but I fear hurting my partner's feelings. I also worry about being alone. How do you know when it's time to go?
Is it Time?
That is always a tough one. As human beings we flock to the familiar and what is comfortable, sometimes it seems easier to just keep the status quot than to shake things up. You said your not sure if your happy? If you closed your eyes and envisioned a life of total bliss what would it look like? Is what is missing something that is a non-negotiable? Is it something you that you could reach out to your partner with? 5 years is a long time to brush away but you don't want to spend another 5 years coasting along in a relationship that is not fulfilling. Picture yourself in another 5 years, is he in the picture? If not, as painful as it is, you should move on for both of your sakes. It will never be easy but it will get better. You don't want to pass up the right guy because you are afraid of being alone. Alone does not have to mean lonely.
Chicago House Transreelization screens 'Free CeCe!', Nov. 5th
Sun, October 30, 2016, 1 comment
Don't miss the third annual TransReelization film benefit this Saturday, Nov. 5, where the Chicago House TransLife Center Advisory Board is screening FREE CeCe!, a new film by director and producer Jacqueline Gares starring Orange Is The New Black star and trans actress/activist Laverne Cox.
Millions go purple on #SpiritDay, Oct. 20
Thu, October 20, 2016
Millions of LGBT advocates and allies are expected to wear the color purple on Thursday, October 20, to commemorate the annual Spirit Day, which is designed to demonstrate support LGBT youth and combat bullying.
Gender Identity and Sexual Orientation are not the same thing, a person who experiences Gender Identity can be Asexual, Bisexual, Heterosexual, Homosexual, or Pansexual.
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